"One Brother and Another"

'ONE BROTHER AND ANOTHER'

a reflection on Matthew 21:28-32

They say a man's only as good as his word.  It's a trustworthy saying and it's all about trust.  It seems Jesus got into a little tangle with the Pharisees and chief priests of the Temple regarding the authority by which he taught.  So, he told them a story...

"What do you think? There was a man who had two sons. He went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work today in the vineyard.’29 “‘I will not,’ he answered, but later he changed his mind and went.30 “Then the father went to the other son and said the same thing. He answered, ‘I will, sir,’ but he did not go.31 “Which of the two did what his father wanted?” asked Jesus.  “The first,” they answered.   Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you. 32 For John came to you to show you the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes did. And even after you saw this, you did not repent and believe him."

Have you seen the TV commercials lately having to do with connection to "and" and "or" or is it... 'and' OR 'or'...?  You know... having the choice between "sweet AND sour chicken" vs. "sweet OR sour"... or the choice about "nuts AND bolts" vs. "nuts OR bolts" in putting up the swimming pool ... or the coach who uses the megaphone to be LOUD but his gibberish phrases makes for his not being very CLEAR... "loud AND clear" vs. "loud OR clear"!  Very clever… and yet this is the time of the year…  where so many sing... are you ready...

… he’s making a list and checking it twice…Going to find out who's 

___(naughty) _____  or ____(nice)___________

But, Jesus comes singing a different song… at least according to Matthew!  It seems one son is naughty after being nice and the other brother is nice before being naughty...

So, let me suggest something -- both sons are wrong!  

When we actually look back to the 1st Century, we frame this parable via a sense of honor -- a son who publicly says "no" to his father is shaming his father even if he does what his father asks and the other son shames his father by saying 'yes' and not following through.  Do you know anyone like this?  Have you looked in the mirror lately?

When the parable hearer is asked to choose between the two sons, a dilemma arises. Both sons have insulted the father, one by saying no, the other by saying yes but doing nothing. But one comes to the family's aid by going into the vineyard and upholding family solidarity, while the other maintains the family's good name by appearing on the surface to be a good son. Would the father choose to be publicly honored and privately shamed, or publicly shamed and privately honored? In the first century A.D. that is not much of a choice. The real question is... "which one he would be more angry?" But in being forced to choose, he must choose between the apparent and the real, between one who appears to be inside the family and one who appears to be outside. 

Bottom line, my brothers, this parable is about doing the will of God (v. 31). The question, "What is God's will for my life?" is one that Christians often ask. However, answering that question with "obeying God and working in the fields" too easily leads to a works righteousness, which we try to avoid.  And we take a language lesson from the Greek here...

For me, the key to this parable is the word metamelomai (pronounce it like it looks!). Although the NRSV translates it "to change one's mind," (vv. 29, 32) that is not the most literal understanding of this word. Usually the idea of "changing one's mind" or "repenting" is conveyed by the Greek word metanoeo (Again, pronounce it like it looks!).

The prefix meta = "change" begins both words.  The verb noeo is related to activities of the mind (nous)  The verb melo has the sense "to care for," so we might translate metamelomai as "changing what one cares about" or "to change what one is most concerned about."  And that is something worth considering here... as we approach Christmas and a new year... 

Pastor Ed Markquardt once wrote… 

“Repentance” means “changing your mind which leads to a change in behavior.” Jesus also stated this theme at the very beginning of the his earthly work, “Repent and believe the gospel.” Jesus first said, “Repent.” He said secondly, “Believe the gospel.” Nowadays, many Christians focus only on one half of Jesus’ teaching: “Believe the gospel.” They/we often ignore the first part of Jesus’ teaching. “Repent.”

The vineyard, the world, is always in a mess.  There are always earthquakes in the Turkeys and Taiwans of the world.  There are always wars in the Mideast and rumors of war in the Koreas of the world.  There are always divorces and families falling apart.  There are always poor families living down the street, with not enough money and emotional resources to make it. 

And what is the predictable reaction of the church to this pain and devastation in the world around us, far and near?  Too often, we merely hold our worship services in the middle of the vineyard.  We have our Bible studies and small group studies in the middle of our brokenness and follow it up with a pot-luck supper and forget to invite the stranger or to risk going out of the parking lot and do something good for someone who will never have the capacity to pay us back.   That's why Martin Luther reminded everyone we are both 'saint AND sinner!'

And so God, in the parable for any day we read it, in his disgust for our unwillingness to do the needed work in the vineyard says, “I will go and find somebody else who will do the work in this world of mine.”  In other words, this parable is an invitation for us not to be like the Pharisees. It is a challenge to go into God’s messed up world and do the necessary work.  It's the realizing that Jesus would rather have us be more like the prostitutes and the tax collectors... more like the whores and the crooks... because despite their unworthiness to part of the Kingdom of God via the rules of the Pharisees and chief priests in the temple... they said, 'yes' to Jesus and chose what was most important...

Now, some have asked me... "well, why didn't Jesus add a third brother?  Why didn't he include a brother who honored his father by saying 'yes' and presented himself as a man of integrity by actually doing what he said he would do?  What about that guy? Wouldn't the story have a different turn if there was a 3rd brother?"

Well, of course... Jesus told the parable... "A man had two sons..." ...two disrespectful sons... sons like us... sons like me... sons like my dad... sons like my dad's grandsons... disrespectful and selfish... sons like you... sons like your sons and grandsons... and ALL of us are guilty... not one OR the other... but both... AND that is why this story has so much power for us... as we are driven to the moment of grace  where we turn to the only son who was faithful in all things... Jesus ... son AND savior... Jesus ... brother AND friend... Jesus... teacher AND guide... Jesus.. Lord AND God.. now AND forever!

May the joy of this time of the year and the 12 days of Christmas do a good work in each of you!

One man at a time; no man left behind,

   Brian

TROPHY WIFE--TROPHY LIFE!

" I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus."           - St. Paul to the Philippians

There’s a new TV show out this fall.  The title is “Trophy Wife.”  What? It may seem odd to comment on something one has never seen; but when it comes to trophies and when it comes to wives, I've had more than one of each!  So, this new show’s name caught my ears, eyes and heart… and sort of hits home to many men in our culture.  Please… don’t shoot the messenger; this wasn't my idea!

The story line is this…  

“The reformed party girl Kate is hoping that’s true when she becomes Pete’s third wife. She fell into his arms (literally) at a karaoke bar and a year later, Kate’s got an insta-family complete with three stepchildren and two ex-wives.”

Wow, who would not want to watch a show like that?  It takes a village, they say.  Too close to home?   Perhaps.  There is some statistical data (not to be read as prophecy) that up to 60 % of the ‘boomers’ will have been married three times in their lifetime… once for sex, once for kids and once for companionship.  That club is growing.  I shared that scenario with my mother a number of years ago and her response was quick… “Well, that’s just dumb.  If your father and I had all three of those things, others can, too.”  Thanks, mom. Dummies, beware.  So, I’m a little biased here for lots of reasons.

Now, don’t get me wrong.  Trophies are good.   A wife is, too.  A trophy often reflects victory and hard work.  Champion stuff.  The Bible says, “A good wife is gift from God” (Proverbs 19:14).  It doesn’t say that about husbands.  Good wife?  Mine has made me a better man, using Jack’s line to Helen in “As Good As It Gets.” But, maybe the rub here isn’t how we get them, rather my reason for holding this up is about the language we use to describe a woman is being called into question here.  Your wife?  A trophy?  It’s more than that.

Whether we want to own up to it or not, men in the 21^st century still live with rules written and unwritten, spoken and assumed about how women are treated, respected and referred to.  I could write that sentence this way, too--- how women are mis-treated, dis-respected and referenced. “Trophy wife” is just the tip of iceberg.  What about “great catch” or “arm candy” or “hottie” or “real-time Barbie” or “he married up”!  Lately, males have digressed.  Men, now, want to “tap that” or “get me some” and then create annals of ‘conquests’ to share at the bar, the golf course or the poker table.  But, guys, listen… don’t think that you hold all the power when it comes to conquests.  Some of the equality victories in the last 40 years include some women holding similar perspectives.  But, men have to take the lead here.

Walk with me 3000 years back in time.  “It’s good to be the king!”  David was the King of Judea.  What more could a guy want picked over his older brothers and what not?  He looked out his courtyard window and what did he see?  A young woman, the wife of Uriah the Hittite named Bathsheba, was getting cleaned up and David saw more than he should have.  Poor Bathsheba, King David thought.  Here I am and here you are and here your husband is off to battle.  Let me help you be a woman.  So, David has her come to his bedroom.  How does a young woman, married or not, refuse the King?  So, she goes.  Power turned inside out!  David has his way.  And oh by the way… he would have been arrested for this in 2013… and because God created us to have the ability to have children, Bathsheba’s encounter with her King also created a season of being ‘with child.’  Dumb King David. He should have listened to my mother.

So, like most guys think… David tried to make 2 wrongs into 1 right.  I have a plan, he thought.  Guys often get in trouble when they plan alone.  Poor Uriah.  He’s out fighting and needs a break.  David calls him back to Jerusalem.  Feeds him.  Gives him drink. Lots of drink.  Then Uriah is sent home with a wink and a nod and given the opportunity to ‘catch up” with his wife.  But, Uriah is the stand-up guy King David was not and instead of going into his own home to be with his wife, he thinks of his band of brothers in battle who can’t be with their wives and in solidarity with their abstinence, he lays down at his doorstep and sleeps.  Plan failed.  King David finds out.

Plan C now goes into effect.  Uriah is sent back this time to the front of the battle and killed.  All hail, King David!  And it’s not until Nathan the prophet calls the King out does he realize the consequences over his lack of values.  Lust, adultery, murder and pride are a nasty recipe for shame and disappointment.  If women are viewed as property, then men will always treat them that way.  Their sons and grandsons will follow suit.  Women deserve better.

But guys, it’s not just about the women.  It’s also about us.  What does it mean when one guy tells another guy, “hey, man, you married up!”  Is this a certain kind of ego slam by suggesting the guy in question isn’t good enough to be married to this particular woman?  Or what about the friend who says to his old home-town school pal, “Wow, who would have ever thought you’d bring home the prom queen?”  So, all these years this guy’s friends thought he wouldn’t amount to much and their predictions of this guy’s mediocrity vanish when he out duels the brothers in choice of spouses.  Guys deserve better, too.

The fact is, trophies tarnish and rust.  I have some.  They break.  They get lost and put in boxes.  Wives should never be treated like that. Women are created imago dei   and are not property.  How, do you think we got the line in the wedding service, “who gives this woman to be married to this man?”  Well, duh?  The guy who owns the property gives it away and then there’s always the ‘dowry!’  Pastors shouldn’t ask that question. But, yet, wives reflect their families.  Sometimes they lie, cheat and steal.  Sometimes they end up being the very opposite of what the guy wanted.  Vice versa for all the above, just for the record… and in the end no one is innocent here; but I’m writing to the men in our church here, ok?  So, just at Jesus told Peter to ‘self-define’ (John CH 21), men, their sons and grandsons will need to tend to a certain self-assessment or personal inventory to keep this all in check.

Again, I haven’t seen the show and I actually suggested in last Sunday’s message, “Guys, there’s a new show out this Fall I won’t be seeing…” and as long as men of faith allow others in the culture to create and maintain our vocabulary and values, then we will always be on the defensive here.  And guys, your daughters and granddaughters deserve better, too.

Is this easy?  No.  Will this take work?  Yes.  Can we do this alone?  Not really, but each man will have to tend to his own row in the garden.  I’d rather not make comments about a ‘trophy wife’… I focus my time on a ‘trophy life’… one that is for the long-haul… one that is defined by a Jesus’ life being the trophy and goal I seek… that my call to faithfulness and the task of bringing others along with me is the purpose for my being… and God’s grace alone will see me through this… That’s all King David had and that’s all I’ve got, too.  Our mistakes do not define us.  Our response to those events, do. So, pray with me that Peter and Kate make a go of this new marriage and the show doesn’t get cancelled due to an unanticipated divorce.  After, all every couple who marries always has ‘divorce’ as the last check mark of their ‘to do’ list, right? And yet, God is faithful and keeps forging out in all of us, male and female, young and old, rich and poor, a life of love and fidelity… to God, the world and ourselves.

One man at a time; no man left behind,

Brian

PS.  Here’s a video clip from  ... that will help... God's grace is all over the net!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHBuOLdRI4I

GUYS, GUTS & GOD'S GLORY-- Jesus' 'poured out life

"Guys, Guts & God's Glory"

       Jesus--- a 'poured out' life 




To All the KING's Men...

Did you hear?  A significant number of young adults (mostly men) have a 'zombie attack' plan.  Up 37% of adults under the age of 30 know what they are going to do when the zombies come. The plans include phrases like 'board up the house', 'call all my friends,' 'steal a car', 'get a gun' and 'stock up on Twinkies' (well, we can again, now!).  Amazing, huh?  Well, there is some biblical evidence worth noting... 

"...people will become like walking corpses, their flesh rotting away.Their eyes will rot in their sockets, and their tongues will rot in their mouths.  On that day they will be terrified, stricken by the LORD with great panic. They will fight their neighbors hand to hand."          - Zechariah 14:12-13

It also seems, according to the prophet, that God would do this.  So, while some adults are formulating plans for zombie attacks, there are others who plan for daily life and the days to come.  I'm one of those guys.  I hope you are, too!

Do you have any preferred Bible words or phrases?  One of my favorite words in the Bible is "splagchna"  (σπλάγχνα).  It's fun to say... "SPLAG-CH-NA" or "SPLAG-CH-NOICE" and while it appears less than a dozen times, it is a powerful word.  A 'guy' word.  It means "bowels" or 'guts'.  It's never singular. Always plural.  Remember that.  Always plural, never singular.  When we talk about 'guts' the word is more than just a reference to our 'innards.'  It pushes our emotions also and is related to phrases like 'tender mercies', having a 'compassionate heart' or 'inner affections'.  And the term also shows up in a graphic reference in Acts 1:18 when Judas went out and hanged himself and his "bowels" poured out all over the ground.  GUTS... a guy word.  Vivid images can be good for us.  Our emotions can lead us to do good work.

When Jesus had accomplished his 'cross and crown' mission of taking on the sins of the world and when the Roman officials were finished with him, a soldier took a spear to his side to determine if he was dead or alive.  When the spear plunged in and out, Gospel writer John recalled that water and blood 'poured out'  from Jesus' side.  Water and blood being poured out of Jesus.  God's compassion and mercy all over the place.  God's power.  The same power when water washed over Jesus at the Jordan River and God's voice said... "this is my son, my beloved; listen to him."  The same power when water was turned into wine at a Cana village wedding.  The same power when, during Passover, Jesus took a chalice of wine reserved for the prophet Elijah and ordered his disciples to keep drinking 'this cup'... a new covenant via his blood... and remember always, never forgetting his love for them.  Plural. For us.  Plural.  Not singular.  For them... for all of us. Water. Wine.  Blood.  Grace.  Forgiveness of sins.  Guys, guts and God's glory ... Jesus being with us... really present now and forever.

In Paul's Letter to Titus (chapter 3)  he writes... 

"God’s people should be big-hearted and courteous.  It wasn't so long ago that we ourselves were stupid and stubborn, dupes of sin, ordered every which way by our glands, going around with a chip on our shoulder, hated and hating back. But when God, our kind and loving Savior God, stepped in, he saved us from all that. It was all his doing; we had nothing to do with it. He gave us a good bath, and we came out of it new people, washed inside and out by the Holy Spirit. Our Savior Jesus poured out new life so generously. God’s gift has restored our relationship with him and given us back our lives. And there’s more life to come—an eternity of life! You can count on this."  (The Message)

One of the things I've come to consider recently... without any intention to harm or diminish clarity ... the language we use in our conversations of faith, theological descriptors and even in our worship a certain kind of confusion exists for those who walk the streets of "Struggles in Life Blvd," "Wrestling With God Row" and "Seeking A New and Better Way to Live" Circle. 

Here are three examples...

1. We ask others, "where do you go to church"?  In asking, the presumption is about the person.  Singular.  Not plural.  Would it be better if we began to ask the same concern by the query... "Tell me about your faith community?  Church is plural.  Never singular.  Jesus didn't die on the cross to save ME or YOU... that's the personal witness... Jesus died to redeem "the cosmos"... all of life... all of creation!  This shift in questioning moves the focus from one person to a group of people.  Remember, Jesus sent his followers in groups and no less than 2's.
2. For centuries our worship services have ended with the blessing and benediction (Numbers 6:22-27) from Aaron to God's people... "the Lord bless YOU and keep YOU; the Lord make his face shine on YOU and be gracious to YOU... " and most of you reading this blog can finish the blessing... but here's the rub... when Aaron said those words, the people of God heard with their Hebrew ears the 'plural' form of YOU... not the singular.  So did our German and Scandinavian ancestors as their native tongue had distinctions of singular and plural.  Spanish makes that distinction as well.  Our English language has inferences to both, but we use the same word... YOU... so I'm thinking that many people come to worship get their 'personal' blessing and can't hear the plural form when the words are spoken.  This may explain or describe how attitudes of 'individualism' in our culture are wearing down our sense of corporate.  Is there a connection between 1 and 2?  Knowing the distinction can minimize the confusion and fallout.
3. In some places we like to say, "Amen" when we agree with another's comment... and especially following a spirited sermon!  But, many of us were taught 'amen' means... 'truly, truly' or 'let it be so' ... and let it go at that... but the term, 'amen' has a more powerful image for us than most think about... 'amen' has it's roots in the Aramaic term, "emunah" (pronounced EM- OOO- Nah') and literally means... "stand fast, hold your ground" or 'keep your place; don't let 'em push you around.'  It's exactly what Jesus did in every circumstance.  He had guts for God.  He held his ground, stood fast and did not let anyone push him around.  His desire to be compassionate, hold inner affections for people in all circumstances of life was clear.  Blood.  Water.  Poured out. For the sake of the world.  Amen?  Amen.  Someone told me that Jesus was the ONLY man who ever accomplished everything he set out to do...

Again, it's what Paul wrote to Titus...

"I want you to put your foot down. Take a firm stand on these matters so that those who have put their trust in God will concentrate on the essentials that are good for everyone."   (The Message)

We're a year away yet, but I'm looking forward to the Triennial Lutheran Men in Mission National Gathering in Nashville, TN  July 18-19-20, 2014... please share with others...

http://www.lutheranmeninmission.org/events/triennial_gathering.html

Guys, guts and God's glory will be the focus and worth the trip and celebration... Why?Simple.  I can't be church by myself. Nor can you!  Plural.  Never singular.   I need other men in my life.... and it's good from time to time (every 3 years can be one of those times..) to step back and take stock of who I am... ask what I'm made of and to ask the one who gives and pours out life to feed me with what I need to be a man in mission... I hope you will do that, too!

One man at at time; no man left behind,

    Brian

"Faithful Fathers--- Problem Solvers at Work Today!"

 

There is an old saying that goes like this... "every problem has a solution and each solution creates new problems which have solutions which create new problems which have solutions..."  The story of the 'Cats of Borneo' is an excellent example...

   http://www.rmi.org/spring_2012_esj_07_imagine_a_world

 

Or as Pogo once said, "we have met the enemy and he is us!".  Old pal, St. Paul referred to this reality as "the old Adam" in each of us.  And I've always liked the saying from recovery ministry... "if that thing you are doing is causing a problem, then that thing you are doing is a problem."  Word!

 

It's Father's Day 2013 weekend!  Hopefully, lots of dads will be in our churches this Sunday.  Hopefully, they will be wanting to hear a word from God about their lives.  Most men I know who are fathers would "lay down their lives" for their children...die for their children.  I'm not sure if that is a problem or a solution but I think our best hope is for the fathers in our churches to "live" for their children.  Will the men in our churches hear a word about "LIFE" this Sunday?  According to Pat Morley, founder of Man in the Mirror ministry ( a para-church organization and linked to the ELCA's Lutheran Men in Mission http://www.maninthemirror.org/) church leaders face 2 key problems...

 

• The "men problem" has become a crisis that is virtually out of control. The collateral damage among families is staggering. Men under 40 are especially vulnerable to an alien worldview that is gutting the institutions of marriage and family. Our government agencies, social sector organizations, and businesses are overrun trying to cope with the downstream damage of an increasingly fatherless, angry, and dysfunctional generation. 

      and...

• Unfortunately, we also have a "church problem." The mission of the church, of course, is to make disciples. We love the church. But the vast majority of churches we talk to are struggling to consistently make male disciples. As a result, they have not been able to cope with the changing climate among men. Their leadership resources are often depleted and most of them need fresh ideas. Churches know that there can be no meaningful solution to the problems our world faces unless men are equipped to be godly men, husbands, fathers, and citizens.

Now, granted, that's a lot to unpack and is really a description of the tip of the iceberg rather than the whole chuck of ice, but does offer a reality all pastors and leaders of men must address.  For, if we do not... then I think we've conceded to 'be" the problem versus tackling it head on.

 

So, where do you start?  It might be a different place than the next pastor or youth director or men's ministry point man... depending on where they are at present... And if that is the case then let me suggest... and some will find this unusual coming from me... that we use our 'liturgical' resources to tend to this... think words like... rhythm, diligence, persistence, authenticity and couple those with words like purpose, grace, renewal, reformation and molding just for starters... and it starts for me on Sunday...  God at work... for the sake of my life and for the sake of your life and those around us.

 

Men of God... Fathers... dads... sons... brothers... can we do this on Sunday...?

• Gather in God's house with gratitude and hope for days past, today and tomorrow?
• Make a point to greet other men around you before the worship begins... to suggest...'hey, we're on this road together... no one walks alone...' Smile... shake a hand... say, "hey... I'm..... (add your name...) and make sure you do that with another man you don't know well... 2 is better!
• Then sit down and shut up for moment and invite God to 'speak' in a way that you will understand and know that this is the best place you could be on Sunday morning...
• Rhythm... confession... owning up... saying 'brokenness' is real and I'm Humpty Dumpty as each of us falls off the wall and somehow can't find a way to piece it all back together...
• Rhythm x 2 ... silence... sense and feel water pouring over your head... know that the Word of God connected to the water washes you clean... trace the cross of Christ on your forehead... it won't rub off, trust me...
• Rhythm x 3 ... the silence is broken when the words of forgiveness and grace are shared... "all my sins are forgiven"  WoW!  Burdens are lifted... the door is opened to a new life... renewed, refreshed, restored...
• Rhythm x 4 ... how does this happen?  "The peace of the Lord be with you always!" is spoken... words to share with others around you... Jesus is God's peace... with each of us... in the center of all those smiles, hand shakes and hugs... Jesus in the middle of our life together... the peace that passes all human understanding... so don't try to figure out God... rejoice in the reality that God has figured YOU out!
• Rhythm x 5... even if you can't carry a tune in a bucket or whether you sing bass in the Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJybtgsOYno) this is the moment of 'awe' and gives cause to sing and praise God and that's why we always sing after the peace is shared... the Reed Sea has split... Moses leads us to the other side of life and we sing our hearts out to the one who saves and provides...

And then we pray and are ready to hear the Word of God and be -reshaped for faithful living...

 

Isn't this really what we do on Sundays...

 

 

Now, when we do this... we will all appear like a bunch quietistic guys who aren't very certain about life or ourselves... Not so, though!  We gather, admit, re-think, renew, make plans, act upon those plans, review and assess and then come back the next Sunday and repeat...  Church is the place where we "practice our faith" so that when those moments arise outside the walls of the church we will have a faith to use...  we all have code... for some our code causes problems... for others the code is the problem solver... but it's life-long work... for all of us... every day... 24-7-365... modeled after the God who neither sleeps nor slumbers...

 

Last piece of business... cause this IS our business... making disciples... helping fathers be faithful and do more than die for their children...

1. Divorce rates have been dropping during the last few decades. Data indicates that marriages have lasted longer in the 21st century than they did in the 1990s.
2. The other side of that statistic is many couples are just not marrying and choosing to live together instead...
3. Which leads to Peggy Contos Hahn's comment earlier this year that in 2012 more children were born out of wedlock than those who are born of a married couple.
4. So, problems have solutions and solutions cause new problems... Here's a list of info you might find helpful before and after Father's Day 2013!  Enjoy... and pray...  http://buildingbrothers.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Men_Statistics.pdf

Happy Father's Day!  May your church be filled with men who "live" for their children...

Keep the conversations going... share this message with a friend or two...

One man at a time; no man left behind...

     Brian

FROM TIME TO TIME- 'Perspectives'

Every once in a while it's good to hold perspective.  Every once in a while we realize the compass gets dropped or we've turned the corner to a path unfamiliar and undesired or we've listened to the voice of one who does not have a our best interest at heart!  "From time to time"... the old saying goes... and it's biblical... part of the work and rest... the rhythm of being fruitful and experiencing 'sabbath/rest' ... from time to time to stop and change the oil... from time to time... to stop and smell the roses...and bring some to the one we love the most!  From time to time to review the highs and lows of life... from time to time to tend to the grace that is gift to us in order to continue on after that time of self-assessment... from time to time to consider the brevity of life and  the desire to be a partner in the community being built for us and around us and within us... from time to time... make a short list of the important matters of the mission and ministry of the men in the Gulf Coast synod... so, let me tend to some BIG rocks and let you know this...

 

 

 

1. All the men in all of our congregations are involved in this work!  How is your congregation's men's ministry keeping track of how this is going and who is tending to what? 

    2. The Vision: "that every man have a growing relationship with Jesus Christ through an effective men's ministry in every congregation."

 

    3. National ELCA LMM web-link: http://www.lutheranmeninmission.org/.  This is a great place to begin when looking for ideas and opportunities for men's ministry in your corner of the kingdom.

 

    4.  The Gulf Coast connection: http://gulfcoastmen.blogspot.com/ to find information, inspiration, a place to connect and event calendar.  YOUR ON IT RIGHT NOW!

    5.  LMM Synod FACEBOOK page:
                         https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/322608116647/

    6. Synod Leaders:

• President: Mark Dentler (Advent/Houston) markdentler@sbcglobal.net
• 1st VP: EJ Hanhart (St. Paul's/ Baton Rouge) ejhanhart@gmail.com
• 2nd VP: Velon Burnett (Messiah/Cypress) mvburnett@sbcglobal.net
• Secretary: Doug Eaton (St. Martin's/Sugarland) doug_eaton@att.net
• Treasurer: Ps. Sam Brannon (St. Paul's / Columbus) sambrannon@gmail.com
• Synod Men's Ministry Coordinator: Rev. Dr. Brian Gigee (New Life/Pearland) brian@newlifelutheran.com

Please keep this information available as these men stand ready to help...

        7.  EVENTS:

• 2013 Synod Assembly Men's "Breakfast Break-Out" Saturday May 18 @ Camp Allen. Speaker: Mr. Rich White, LMM National President
• "Disciple Project" @ TLU June 24 - 28 "MEN @ WORK" (Leadership Training for Year-Round Men's Ministry)

• you can get started here:  http://gulfcoastsynod.org/events/the-disciple-project/

• Fall Men's Leadership Gathering @ Camp Lutherhill "One Year to Live" Retreat September 19-20-21, 2013
• Tri-Synod Men's Huddle: March 21,22 & 23, 2014 @ Briarwood Retreat Center (NTNL Synod hosts)  This is the PRE-Gathering to the National LMM event (see below!)

     8.  NEXT National LMM Gathering:

• The National LMM Gathering/Assembly will be held in Nashville, TN July18-19-20, 2014. The Pre-Assembly gathering is July 17 - 18, Assembly (Business Meeting).
• The theme is : "GUYS, GUTS AND GOD'S GLORY." This promises to be an exciting gathering in a fun city to visit. If you have not already done so at your synod LMM gatherings this year, please elect or chose delegates (voting members) to represent your synod to vote on issues and elections at the assembly.
• Hopefully, the 3 synods from TX and LA will have a significant contingent attend and return to our respective synods with renewed faith and energy to keep tending to this important work.

      9. SYNOD PROJECT:

• At this year's annual gathering in February our men voted to help complete a project at Principe' de Paz in Houston.  Doug McNaughton of Holy Comforter will take the point!
• Principe' de Paz's pastor, the Rev. Adriana Johnson-Rivas has a growing outreach to families via a 'soccer' ministry to families.  They have 1 good field but room for 3 fields including upgrading Field # 1 to a tournament a field and building some bleachers and a stand for refreshments.  This will take some planning and 'hands on' plus some financial support to complete.  Ps. Pedro Suarez, our synod's Director for Evangelical Mission will also assist us in this plan.  Pray.  Stand by.  Step up.  It's on !

    10.  GENERAL FINANCIAL SUPPORT:

• Over the years, all congregations have been asked "from time to time" to share a financial gift to the ELCA's LMM national campaign but to also share a gift to support the 4 "LOVE PROJECTS" of our Gulf Coast Synod LMM  1) Camp Lutherhill; 2) TLU; 3) Synod LYO; and 4) the mission of LMM's support staff.  If your congregation has sent a gift this year...thank you... and if you have not will you please send a gift to Ps. Sam Brannon (mark "Gulf Coast LMM") at St. Paul's LC  PO Box 267  Columbus, Texas 78934.

From time to time it is good for us to stop and check our oil, check our compass and see that we are on a path that leads to life and listen to the voice of the one who calls us from darkness into his marvelous light!  It was no coincedence that Luther picked a 'rose' for his crest of faith!

 

One man @ a time; no man left behind,

 

     Brian

 

            Gulf Coast Men's Ministry Coordinator